Definitely a giver!
So, what are the drawbacks?
1. I can end up being burned out & exhausted from continuously giving if I do not receive the support I need from the relationship.
2. I will never be truly happy unless my lover supports me as I support him. Because I will eventually feel worn out & perhaps even leave.
3. I deserve to receive. But I have spent so much time being a "giver" that I do not really know what it means to be a taker.
I don't mind to "invest" a little more in the relationship. However, that shouldn't be the norm. Both should commit themselves equally in the relationship. There must be reciprocity.